Post by ConcernedAnon on Apr 29, 2011 4:10:05 GMT -5
Hi,
I've just found this forum and hope someone out there can give me some advice.
I'm having problems trying to get access to see my daughter.
After amicably separating from her mother, everything was calm and I had access to my daughter at weekends up until a few years ago.
Then I remarried and my ex-wife couldn't handle that, and her attitude changed overnight.
Her response was to completely cut off contact with me. She even closed the bank account I was paying into for my daughter's maintenance.
As you can imagine this has been more than devastating for me - as anyone who has experienced the same thing will know.
I'm not really sure what's been said to my daughter and that troubles me also. What if she has poisoned her against me after being so amicable before?
I don't feel any anger toward my ex, I think she is dealing with the change in circumstances very badly, but as time has passed I'm thinking/hoping perhaps she will have recovered from her own dilemma and it might be possible to re-gain access with my daughter.
I am seeking some advice on how to do this without provoking another hysterical over-reaction. What would be the best approach? I don't know whether I should go in person, or send a third party, or a letter or a lawyer's letter. I don't exactly know where she is living but I have her parents address.
Many thanks for any advice.
I've just found this forum and hope someone out there can give me some advice.
I'm having problems trying to get access to see my daughter.
After amicably separating from her mother, everything was calm and I had access to my daughter at weekends up until a few years ago.
Then I remarried and my ex-wife couldn't handle that, and her attitude changed overnight.
Her response was to completely cut off contact with me. She even closed the bank account I was paying into for my daughter's maintenance.
As you can imagine this has been more than devastating for me - as anyone who has experienced the same thing will know.
I'm not really sure what's been said to my daughter and that troubles me also. What if she has poisoned her against me after being so amicable before?
I don't feel any anger toward my ex, I think she is dealing with the change in circumstances very badly, but as time has passed I'm thinking/hoping perhaps she will have recovered from her own dilemma and it might be possible to re-gain access with my daughter.
I am seeking some advice on how to do this without provoking another hysterical over-reaction. What would be the best approach? I don't know whether I should go in person, or send a third party, or a letter or a lawyer's letter. I don't exactly know where she is living but I have her parents address.
Many thanks for any advice.
