Post by Kevin on May 6, 2011 0:44:11 GMT -5
Terrible case of verbal abuse and control.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGcAzX9E3qU&feature=related
Some key points from this video:
0.0 nice neighbourhood, nice house, behind closed doors
0.30 the kind we hear about but often dont believe
1.00 he indicates that he wants the tape to prove his anger at his wife is justified (!!!!)
2.12 falls in love with a charismatic guitarist. I wonder how he would register on an NPI. He was out of work so was not getting his fill when it comes to narcissistic need for admiration
3.00 at first he was just very demanding and controlling - not so different from her own father - so does that mean she picked a guy because she had unconsciously learned that was the way women should expect to be treated?
3.20 never wanted friends over, never wanted friends in his house - especially men. Cut her off from her own family
4.15 manipulating the conversation
4.45 he totally had my children on his side, he had them brainwashed (and that was in the same house as the target)
5.35 like 1.00 - the psychosis - complete distortion of reality. This highly possessive man believes she's having relationships with various men who come into contact with her children (karate, swimming teachers etc)
7.25 In the victims eyes, because of what her husband was telling her, she was the problem. All she had to do was fix herself
7.40 Physically and mentally beat her down to nothing which contributes towards her not leaving her husband
9.42 What the judge said was you have destroyed this family as much - if not more - than if you had committed a murder
And all because she asked him if he'd like some lunch.
At least she's out of hell now.
Of course this is a domestic violence case and not totally verbal abuse - at least in the UK its not illegal to verbally abuse a woman in her own home.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGcAzX9E3qU&feature=related
Some key points from this video:
0.0 nice neighbourhood, nice house, behind closed doors
0.30 the kind we hear about but often dont believe
1.00 he indicates that he wants the tape to prove his anger at his wife is justified (!!!!)
2.12 falls in love with a charismatic guitarist. I wonder how he would register on an NPI. He was out of work so was not getting his fill when it comes to narcissistic need for admiration
3.00 at first he was just very demanding and controlling - not so different from her own father - so does that mean she picked a guy because she had unconsciously learned that was the way women should expect to be treated?
3.20 never wanted friends over, never wanted friends in his house - especially men. Cut her off from her own family
4.15 manipulating the conversation
4.45 he totally had my children on his side, he had them brainwashed (and that was in the same house as the target)
5.35 like 1.00 - the psychosis - complete distortion of reality. This highly possessive man believes she's having relationships with various men who come into contact with her children (karate, swimming teachers etc)
7.25 In the victims eyes, because of what her husband was telling her, she was the problem. All she had to do was fix herself
7.40 Physically and mentally beat her down to nothing which contributes towards her not leaving her husband
9.42 What the judge said was you have destroyed this family as much - if not more - than if you had committed a murder
And all because she asked him if he'd like some lunch.
At least she's out of hell now.
Of course this is a domestic violence case and not totally verbal abuse - at least in the UK its not illegal to verbally abuse a woman in her own home.